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Relationships are hard; why we need continuing education for our marriage.

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After 12 years of marriage, I've realized that all long-term intimate relationships require work, growth, and a willingness to change. Everyone experiences rough patches in their relationships; if they claim otherwise, they're deceiving themselves. Life is challenging, and living with the same person every day, sharing space, resources, and time can be difficult. We often get engaged with the expectation that marriage will be a smooth sailing journey. We believe that once we've found our life partner, the hard work is over, and we can coast along on love. However, reality sets in, and we realize that our chosen partner isn't the perfect image we once envisioned. For many, this realization can lead to distancing from each other and the growth of resentment within their hearts. I've been there, my husband has been there, and we've both experienced this firsthand. This realization spurred us to take action and address the issues in our relationship. We were no long...